tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2764197356088627779.post7194717830860856875..comments2023-08-27T06:40:43.601-04:00Comments on Missing in Sight: Deserve self-worth?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2764197356088627779.post-63361692541386834272009-05-30T21:34:50.683-04:002009-05-30T21:34:50.683-04:00Ivory,
What's great about blogging is that we can...Ivory,<br /><br />What's great about blogging is that we can help our Internet friends "stay afloat" and that helps us swim, too.<br /><br />Your comment made me feel so good. I'm sorry you've experienced the compulsion to burn like I do. It's a hard thing to break. <br /><br />Thanks for being so real and honest. I look forward to your blogging. <br /><br />Stay strong and take care, as always.<br /><br />Missing In SightMissing In Sighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08550255615516862848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2764197356088627779.post-31887898788852950252009-05-29T20:44:11.348-04:002009-05-29T20:44:11.348-04:00I'm so glad I followed your link back to you! I wa...I'm so glad I followed your link back to you! I was here a few days ago and wanted to add you do the list of Blogs I'm following, and then couldn't remember who you were later. Hope its okay that I add you.<br /><br />I haven't burned for years. I haven't cut for about 8 months. It is a vicious circle. One thing that cooled that behavior for me was the day my T got frustrated with a young alter. She had hidden herself for cutting and I was defending her actions. Mr.S looked at me and boldly accused, "Well, you're right. You went thru hell to have the right to wear that cloak of self pity, fear, and right to tear yourself apart. You earned it, I guess you'd just like to hang on to it awhile, right?"<br /><br />Ooohh. That drove some truth right where it needed to be. He'd said similar things before, but this time, I heard him. Darn. I don't want that cloak any more. <br /><br />I hope you find the way to your heart and realize that hurting yourself is only letting your abusers WIN. Please, don't let them win. I'm not saying I'll never again cut, I'm just hoping that if I can help my blogging friends stay afloat, I will be able to swim, too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com